When life happens we can become surrounded by what looks like a bunch of problems we tend to forget who we are and we shrink back. When we take a step forward and get knocked back ten we tend to forget that we still have the victory and we can overcome anything life throws our way. We forget that in every test, trial, hurt, disappointment and setback we win. I don't know what you may be going through but I want to remind you that there is a winner in you! Don't you dare shrink back and live in defeat because you look around and feel like you're losing! So what the relationship didn't last, the job laid you off and you have more bills than money but guess what you still win! Winning isn't about the things you have but it's a mindset. If you choose to have a pity party about what you lost you can't pay attention to what you're gaining throughout this process. Sometimes we get caught up trying to prove to others we're "winning" by posting on social media all the things we have and how "happy" we are but can we still have a "winning" attitude when all hell is breaking loose? Are we still "winning" when we are going through or only when things are perfect?

Winning isn't what you have but who you are. You win because you know no matter what's happening in life you have absolute victory and though from the outside looking in it seems you're losing but you're not! Winning is apart of a Queens D.N.A Can God ever lose? Every battle God has complete victory and since we are his children guess what? WE HAVE VICTORY TOO!! Lately, I've had some very high mountains to climb and I know God is in the midst pushing me through. I dare not complain, I dare not live defeated but I continue to praise God in the pain and go this process knowing I have the victory! I had to remind myself that I am victorious and with God, I win! But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ (1 Corinthians 15:57 KJV) I am so thankful that he has empowered us to have victory in EVERY situation but he gives it to us and doesn't force us to have it. We have a choice when problems come our way we can choose to have a pity party or rejoice in our trials because we already know the outcome!Queens aren't pitiful we are powerful! There is a winner in each of us and once you recognize that you win you won't allow your emotions to make you feel defeated. You won't run to the phone to ask others to join your pity party and complain but you will start to rejoice because you know this is just another opportunity for God to show himself to you and work in your life but you have to allow him to do so. Allow God to take care of what you can't! You do all you can do and watch him work things out! Stop worrying about who, what, when, why and how but keep praying, reading and fasting and God will work on your behalf. Can all your worries add a single moment to your life? (Matthew 6:27 NLT) The answer to that is NO!!

God is looking for someone who is open to receive from him let that person be you! For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to shew himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him. Herein thou hast done foolishly: therefore from henceforth, thou shalt have wars. (2 Chronicles 16:9 KJV) So show yourself to him so he can show himself to you! If you shrink back and stop you're giving up. Queens don't quit! DO NOT QUIT! It's the enemies job to get you off course and stop your focus but you can"t allow him to have authority over you when God has given us authority over him. Behold! I have given you authority and power to trample upon serpents and scorpions, and [physical and mental strength and ability] over all the power that the enemy [possesses]; and nothing shall in any way harm you. (Luke 10:19 AMP) I don't know about you but that just got me EXCITED!!! When you find yourself feeling like it's over remember what God says about the victory we have in him! If you're trying to do it all on your own expect a lot of hurt, pain and a lot of frustration because in our own strength we fail. I can say that because I've tried it and fell flat on my face and it did not feel good at all

You don't know what people are going through, how many tears they've cried and what pain they've endured but throughout it, all God has us and reminds us that in him we win! You have to know that whatever you're in your coming out of it! It has taken me a really long time to understand this and I am so thankful that I understand it now. I was the person that quit when things got hard and I would complain about what I am going through but now I've learned to keep calm and let God handle it. I've learned to keep loving when others are hating, keep being positive when others are being negative and keep quiet unless I am speaking victory over the situation. If you're reading this and you're facing a hard situation I want to encourage you to pick up your crown! No matter what comes your way don't forget that Queen's can't lose!